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Love Letters

 

 

When a powerful, first given name letter consonant is followed by a strong vowel using some of the same personality traits, added emphasis is certain. Take the name Kalene. Its “K” is a dominant individual who knows her opinions are right most of the time. But it is tempered by someone who is passive too. There is a constant fight in temperament with the dominant side of her winning out most of the time. Add to that the “A” which tells her to take action on her thoughts and you have someone who doesn’t mind taking action but stops to think about the consequences afterwards. Her “L” reinforces both behaviors. The “E” makes her intelligent enough that others listen to her. And because the “E” is in the name twice both in middle and is the very last letter, it gives added importance to that letters character. Also, she generally gets the last word. Her “N” wants solid structure with leadership qualities.

When a consonant opens and closes the name, it adds substance. Bob is a name with three letters and the consonants surrounding the most important vowel. Added strength is given to the two “B’s” in that they can mean duality and change but they do so very emotionally even if that emotion is well hidden. The “O” has bookends of “B’s” and makes the “O” more obstinate about showing its traits. It brings more instability to the character and evokes wanderlust. As you can see a little three-lettered name creates emotional turmoil for its wearer.

If you truly meet someone you can’t do without, you need to check the name to see if you can live with character qualities they possess. Also, you really want to see how your name stacks up against that person’s name. Find out if you both have qualities that can help the other. For instance, if one is not a leader and the other is, these qualities can have a good effect on the relationship. But if both find that they need to be leaders in the relationship, you can see immediately where this is going. Also you can note the negative sides of personality traits because as you know, each of us exhibits our negative traits at one time or another. Looking at the name a person prefers gives great insights into their natures.