King Henry wanted an heir. As much as he desired Anne, if she couldn’t give him that heir quickly, then he had to become tenacious in ridding himself of her in some way. To give him credit, he did try to do so without killing her until he thought too much time was passing. His first vowel in his given name meant he was not a patient man. He needed a wife so that his heir would be born in wedlock. And we know the story of poor Anne losing her head for love. The king was not only lustful but he was quite restless as well. When looking at love in the meanings of the letters of the name, be aware that sometimes the letters of the name can make a person be too much like his or her partner. Thus it’s hard on both people to make the relationship work just as it was for the king and Anne. There are times that having letters that don’t match completely in both names is better because it brings a little mystery and different approaches to life to the relationship. King Henry and Anne had the same letters repeated and caused considerable hardship for at least one of the parties. The “N’s” in both Henry’s and Anne’s names made each of them want a stable relationship but on the negative side could make one or the other suspicious that their lover didn’t have their best interest at heart. Their shared “E’s’ made them attracted to each other but also made them nervous and possibly a little unstable.

The combination of letters can ease challenges in the name. And it can lend more strength too. Spelling can have its advantages and disadvantages. When given names are brought together in a relationship between two people, they can add to the burden upon the relationship or they can allay some trying times.

Let’s look at a couple, Mickey and Harold, whose names have different letters altogether. Their first consonants and first vowels are nothing alike. So how can they be compatible? It’s simple, they are nothing alike but they find reasons within the name to seize upon aspects of each other that both respect and want for themselves. The first letter “M” in Mickey’s name means that she is ambitious and independent, something Harold admires. Harold’s first letter is the “H” which is a sign that material success is there for the asking. Mickey’s “M” counts on this for the family she wants to share. Both the second vowels, “E” and “O” gives the little oomph to create their family in very fascinating ways. Harold’s “O” means that Mickey will not get bored with their lovemaking and thus insures a family life. Both care for others as shown by Mickey’s “I” and Harold’s “R” and that means a lot to Mickey. Challenges in this relationship can come in the form of Mickey’s need to be around others. Harold is happy at home with just his loved ones. Mickey needs people.

The whole name makes a difference in evaluating relationships. But if a person consistently uses only one name or a nickname they choose such as the name, “Prince,” then that name will be the most telling into character. Whether the name is one chosen later in life or a nickname from birth, if the person wearing it chooses to keep that name, then it lends more influence to their personality than a given name. And it is the same when they chose a name they prefer later in life. That name has more command in their personality than the name given to them by their parents. Some people tend to change from nicknames to their given names at times in their lives. When they do this, they are subconsciously trying to change the way they look at life. Because of this, any name they might have given themselves is best looked at with more authority.

Take, for instance, the nickname given early in life of say, “Bubba.” For most of us, that conjures up quite an image. Say it again to yourself. Whoever put that name on the person wanted someone with really close family ties with all the “B’s.” And they wanted the person to be submissive but they should have thought of the “A” at the end of the name. The “U” makes this individual try to be submissive but they are always looking for a way out. And their last vowel discloses that they should find that way out and take it. If this person changes their name as soon as they can, then it shows that they did find a way out of their dilemma and it is according to the name they took as to what direction they went from there.

 Names are like the proverbial saying about, “Clothes make the man.” Actually names do. Therefore you have to remember when looking for the love of your life that you take into consideration the whole name and any nickname your partner might choose or wear already. And that brings up another signal, if a person hates their name, there has to be a reason why. They are telling you there is something in their personality that they don’t like or want to hide. Look for those hidden meanings. A good instance is my first and middle name, Da Juana Ann. I love my first name. My second name, which I don’t generally use, gives added strength to the first. My problem is that the added strength is not something that I admire. All the “A’s” in the first and middle name could make me very selfish. This is not a trait I like. The “N’s” tend to reinforce that selfish trait. So for my sake and the sake of liking myself more, I only use my first name. In that way, the selfish trait is effectively eliminated.

When choosing a lover you need all the help you can get. A name is one of the first things you learn about the person to which you are attracted. And the name is a very simple, cost-effective way to get to know the personality traits of your potential love. Learning about your new intended’s characteristics can give you pertinent information on whether you want to invest in the relationship or not.